I hate cell phones!!
Now, no fainting or falling over in shock. Most people may do a double take on that 1st sentence. They will be thinking, "How can someone hate cell phones? They are the BEST invention ever.
To me, cell phones are one of the worst inventions ever. Let me try and explain my thinking.
1. I love being disconnected. One thing I love to do is go for a drive and be unreachable for a couple of hours. Unlike the rest of the world, I don't feel the need to be in constant contact with people. In fact, I enjoy being truly alone with no interruptions.
Oh, and this is why I like having a land line at home. I give my land line # to doctors, businesses, etc. I never give my cell phone to those people. The last thing I want to deal with when I'm out and about is someone scheduling a lawn treatment. Some things can wait.
2. I am NOT a phone person. In fact, I really do not enjoy talking on the phone. The only time I came close to being a phone person was when I was in an LDR with my now-husband. Otherwise, no phone for me. My good friends and family know this about me. Luckily, they get it and still love me. I prefer talking with people in person so that I can see all the nonverbals.
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The only reason I got a cell phone in the first place was due to pressure from my family (they were concerned about me driving from Murfreesboro, TN to see them in Jax, FL) and due to work. At the time, I worked in residence life for MTSU and had a beeper. Having a cell phone made it more convenient for me to return pages.
Now it is 11 years later, and I still can't stand cell phones or the idea of them. Why do people feel the need to be constantly reachable? Heck, it is so bad that people are not able to drive for 15 minutes without talking on a cell or go to dinner or a movie. Do they really believe that everything needs to be dealt with now? I don't get it. It makes you wonder how we survived in the 70s, 80s, and most of the 90s without them.
I do like one feature of my phone...texting! But, beyond that, I would be happy if I never carried one again; however, my husband wouldn't like it if I did that. Sigh.
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Sunday, August 21, 2011
Loving Ginny
I knew that once we had a baby our lives would change forever. In some ways that change was scary, but, yet, eagerly anticipated. Now, I cannot imagine my life without Virginia (Ginny). I love her beyond any measure. She is the greatest treasure, blessing, and light in my life.
It isn't fair in some ways that a child never fully understands their parents' love for them until they become a parent themselves. I loved Ginny before she was born, but that love grew by leaps and bounds once she was born. The love for her continues to grow. It is a love unlike any other I have ever felt. My parents made sure to let me know they loved my sister and me, especially Mom (only because she is naturally more demonstrative...not because she loved us any more than Dad). Even with all that love being "thrown" at us, while I loved (and still love) my parents, I did not realize how much they loved us until Ginny was born.
Ginny is a wonderful gift from God. I am thankful every day for her....even when she is cranky or doesn't let me get much sleep. I enjoy watching her learn and discover new things. Her smiles light me up from the inside. I laugh so much with her now. Just watching her enjoying a toy will have me laughing hysterically at times.
I even cry due to her. If she is in pain and I can't fix it, I am in pain too...often with unshed tears in my eyes. This past Thursday she went in for her 4 month check up. She had some shots she had to get, and I found myself crying with her. I hated hearing her in that much shock and pain. It tore me up. I knew she needed the vaccinations, but didn't like seeing her going from smiling up at the nurses to the sudden howl and tears.
My greatest worry in life is now Ginny. I worry about her more than myself or anyone else I know. After Ginny was born, it took a while for my milk to come in and Ginny lost 15 oz, over 15% of her body weight. That was a cause of concern. While some weight loss is normal (around 5-7%), she lost more than normal. It took a little while for her to gain the weight back, but now she is super healthy and gaining like a champ. At her appointment we found out that she is now 14 lbs. 6.5 oz. and 23 3/4 inches long. Just seeing those numbers made me beam!
From now until the end of my days, Ginny will fill my thoughts and life. I couldn't be more grateful for her. Loving Ginny is the best thing ever!
It isn't fair in some ways that a child never fully understands their parents' love for them until they become a parent themselves. I loved Ginny before she was born, but that love grew by leaps and bounds once she was born. The love for her continues to grow. It is a love unlike any other I have ever felt. My parents made sure to let me know they loved my sister and me, especially Mom (only because she is naturally more demonstrative...not because she loved us any more than Dad). Even with all that love being "thrown" at us, while I loved (and still love) my parents, I did not realize how much they loved us until Ginny was born.
Ginny is a wonderful gift from God. I am thankful every day for her....even when she is cranky or doesn't let me get much sleep. I enjoy watching her learn and discover new things. Her smiles light me up from the inside. I laugh so much with her now. Just watching her enjoying a toy will have me laughing hysterically at times.
I even cry due to her. If she is in pain and I can't fix it, I am in pain too...often with unshed tears in my eyes. This past Thursday she went in for her 4 month check up. She had some shots she had to get, and I found myself crying with her. I hated hearing her in that much shock and pain. It tore me up. I knew she needed the vaccinations, but didn't like seeing her going from smiling up at the nurses to the sudden howl and tears.
My greatest worry in life is now Ginny. I worry about her more than myself or anyone else I know. After Ginny was born, it took a while for my milk to come in and Ginny lost 15 oz, over 15% of her body weight. That was a cause of concern. While some weight loss is normal (around 5-7%), she lost more than normal. It took a little while for her to gain the weight back, but now she is super healthy and gaining like a champ. At her appointment we found out that she is now 14 lbs. 6.5 oz. and 23 3/4 inches long. Just seeing those numbers made me beam!
From now until the end of my days, Ginny will fill my thoughts and life. I couldn't be more grateful for her. Loving Ginny is the best thing ever!
Tuesday, August 16, 2011
I'm in Love!!
It has been a busy month for us, and I am enjoying myself! We have been busy with family visits (which I previously expressed my joy for) and travels. The month of August is a full and fun one, for the most part, thus far.
Last week, my husband had to go up to Minneapolis for work. He arranged it so that Ginny and I could go with him. :) (Basically, we paid for our own travel and other expenses, but his expenses were covered.) We were a bit nervous about how Ginny would take the drive up since it is an 8 1/2 hour drive, without breaks. One thing I did ahead of time was to pump milk so that we would have enough with us so that we could feed her while driving (after making a pit stop to change the diaper, etc). Pumping is no fun for me because apparently my body doesn't respond as well to a pump as it does to Ginny. I have difficulty getting the milk out when I pump, but I was able to get enough for the trip (it took about a week to do so).
Anyhow, Ginny was great! She slept for most of the morning, and was in decent spirits for most of the afternoon. With only 3 hours or so left to go, either Chris or myself was in the back seat with her otherwise she got a bit frustrated. We did that at other points on our trip as well.
When we arrived in Minneapolis, I started to feel an interesting tug. Our hotel was in Chanhassen (a small town suburb) and once we got there, I knew I had fallen---in love! It really was love at first sight with Minneapolis. There is something about that city that enchants me. I can really envision raising our family there. It is a clean and beautiful city.
The next day, Chris went to work and Ginny & I went to the Mall of America. I'm not a huge shopper but went because I was curious. It was nice, but didn't do much for me. Heck, after 2 1/2-3 hours, I barely made a dent in the mall. However, I did find an awesome sale at Carter's and bought a few fall outfits for Ginny. That made the whole trip worth it (that and my time in Sephora--my absolutely fave store in the world!). After we left the Mall, I decided to go the "long" way back to the hotel. I drove into downtown Minneapolis, got off on Hennepin Ave and made my way back to our hotel. Boy...I fell even more in love! I really can imagine living there. Chris tells me I should probably wait on making a final judgement after we go for a visit in the winter time.
That night we met up with a college friend of mine, Robyn, and her partner, Traci, for dinner at a local Mexican restaurant. I had not seen Robyn in 18 years. Traci and Robyn have been married for 11 years (not legally, for those who wonder). It was, obviously, my first time meeting Traci. She was fabulous! I can see why Robyn and Traci are together. What a fantastic match and a wonderful person Robyn found! :) We ended up spending nearly 2 hours talking and eating.
Thursday morning, it was time for us to leave after Chris finished working early that afternoon. It was a wonderful trip! I can't wait to visit Minneapolis again!
Last week, my husband had to go up to Minneapolis for work. He arranged it so that Ginny and I could go with him. :) (Basically, we paid for our own travel and other expenses, but his expenses were covered.) We were a bit nervous about how Ginny would take the drive up since it is an 8 1/2 hour drive, without breaks. One thing I did ahead of time was to pump milk so that we would have enough with us so that we could feed her while driving (after making a pit stop to change the diaper, etc). Pumping is no fun for me because apparently my body doesn't respond as well to a pump as it does to Ginny. I have difficulty getting the milk out when I pump, but I was able to get enough for the trip (it took about a week to do so).
Anyhow, Ginny was great! She slept for most of the morning, and was in decent spirits for most of the afternoon. With only 3 hours or so left to go, either Chris or myself was in the back seat with her otherwise she got a bit frustrated. We did that at other points on our trip as well.
When we arrived in Minneapolis, I started to feel an interesting tug. Our hotel was in Chanhassen (a small town suburb) and once we got there, I knew I had fallen---in love! It really was love at first sight with Minneapolis. There is something about that city that enchants me. I can really envision raising our family there. It is a clean and beautiful city.
The next day, Chris went to work and Ginny & I went to the Mall of America. I'm not a huge shopper but went because I was curious. It was nice, but didn't do much for me. Heck, after 2 1/2-3 hours, I barely made a dent in the mall. However, I did find an awesome sale at Carter's and bought a few fall outfits for Ginny. That made the whole trip worth it (that and my time in Sephora--my absolutely fave store in the world!). After we left the Mall, I decided to go the "long" way back to the hotel. I drove into downtown Minneapolis, got off on Hennepin Ave and made my way back to our hotel. Boy...I fell even more in love! I really can imagine living there. Chris tells me I should probably wait on making a final judgement after we go for a visit in the winter time.
That night we met up with a college friend of mine, Robyn, and her partner, Traci, for dinner at a local Mexican restaurant. I had not seen Robyn in 18 years. Traci and Robyn have been married for 11 years (not legally, for those who wonder). It was, obviously, my first time meeting Traci. She was fabulous! I can see why Robyn and Traci are together. What a fantastic match and a wonderful person Robyn found! :) We ended up spending nearly 2 hours talking and eating.
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| My friend Robyn, Ginny, & I |
Thursday morning, it was time for us to leave after Chris finished working early that afternoon. It was a wonderful trip! I can't wait to visit Minneapolis again!
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